Fatherhood Advocacy
How to Help Noncustodial Fathers Secure Parenting Time: Best Practices and Support Resources
In our last article, we addressed some of the financial and employment, housing, parenting knowledge and skills, partner and child’s health, and personal well-being needs of fathers. To continue that conversation, in this post, we will examine the circumstances and...
Two Or Three Is Better Than One – The value of a community of fathers
Introduction 9 Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. 10 If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble. 11 Likewise, two people lying close together can keep each other warm....
National Fatherhood Month – A Critical Call to Action
Introduction I have a question. Before asking the question, I will give some background. June is widely recognized as Fatherhood Month or Responsible Fatherhood Month in the United States. It's not a universal federal observance like Father's Day, which is celebrated...
The Downside of Manning-Up
“Big boys don’t cry.” Or “Don’t be a sissy!” Did you hear those things as a kid? Phrases like those and "Man up!" reinforce the idea that emotional expression is "unmanly." Being told those things by our fathers, older male siblings, or peers planted seeds that have...
Investing in Fathers: A Fiscally Responsible Approach to Social Change
In an era of intense debate over government spending and budget priorities, one overlooked solution offers remarkable promise: strengthening fatherhood. While partisan battles rage over social program funding, tax rates, and the proper role of government, fatherhood...
Black History Month: Generational Impacts of American Slavery
Introduction While the Fathering Strong Movement seeks to strengthen fatherhood and families of all ethnicities, it is essential to be aware of and address the unique challenges of some groups. In commemoration of Black History Month, this blog post aims to raise...
Vision: The Fathering Strong Movement
Introduction In my last blog post, I made a case for the need for a significant national campaign to strengthen the institution of fatherhood to benefit children, families, and communities. Such a movement would require collective action, shared beliefs and goals,...
3 Reasons for a Nonpartisan Fatherhood Movement
Introduction Hopefully, the nation will turn toward healing with the inauguration of America’s 47th president after more than eight years of political rancor. However, many issues divide people along political, party, religious, moral, and ideological lines. Those...
The Fathering Strong Year in Review
Introduction This week, the team at Urban Light Ministries observes the completion of the first full year of the operation of Fathering Strong®. 2024 was a year of challenge and progress. In this blog post, we will report on our accomplishments and the remaining...
Fatherlessness in America: How Mentoring Can Transform Boys’ Lives
In 2022, more than 18 million U.S. children lived without a biological father in the home—that is one in four children! That doesn’t mean there was no father figure present in 25% of US homes. Also, it doesn’t imply that 75% of physically present biological dads were...
Fatherhood in Urban America: Not Deadbeat, Beat Down
In a perfect world, every child is born into a home surrounded by the loving care of the married, biological mother and father. To state the painfully obvious, we’re not in a perfect world—far from it. According to the CDC, roughly 1.4 million live births to unmarried...
The Vital Role Of Fathers In Building Strong And Stable Families
In last week’s episode of the Fathering Strong blog, we shared some thoughts about being providers. The main takeaway was that dads bring a lot more to the table than financial resources. The “S” in POPS stands for Stabilizer. In this final episode of this...










