Fatherhood Advocacy

National Fatherhood Month – A Critical Call to Action

National Fatherhood Month – A Critical Call to Action

Introduction I have a question. Before asking the question, I will give some background. June is widely recognized as Fatherhood Month or Responsible Fatherhood Month in the United States. It's not a universal federal observance like Father's Day, which is celebrated...

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The Downside of Manning-Up

The Downside of Manning-Up

“Big boys don’t cry.” Or “Don’t be a sissy!” Did you hear those things as a kid? Phrases like those and "Man up!" reinforce the idea that emotional expression is "unmanly." Being told those things by our fathers, older male siblings, or peers planted seeds that have...

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Vision: The Fathering Strong Movement

Vision: The Fathering Strong Movement

Introduction In my last blog post, I made a case for the need for a significant national campaign to strengthen the institution of fatherhood to benefit children, families, and communities. Such a movement would require collective action, shared beliefs and goals,...

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3 Reasons for a Nonpartisan Fatherhood Movement

3 Reasons for a Nonpartisan Fatherhood Movement

Introduction Hopefully, the nation will turn toward healing with the inauguration of America’s 47th president after more than eight years of political rancor. However, many issues divide people along political, party, religious, moral, and ideological lines. Those...

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The Fathering Strong Year in Review

The Fathering Strong Year in Review

Introduction This week, the team at Urban Light Ministries observes the completion of the first full year of the operation of Fathering Strong®. 2024 was a year of challenge and progress. In this blog post, we will report on our accomplishments and the remaining...

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Fatherhood in Urban America: Not Deadbeat, Beat Down

Fatherhood in Urban America: Not Deadbeat, Beat Down

In a perfect world, every child is born into a home surrounded by the loving care of the married, biological mother and father. To state the painfully obvious, we’re not in a perfect world—far from it. According to the CDC, roughly 1.4 million live births to unmarried...

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