In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams speaks with Alonzo McKenzie, a fatherhood practitioner and author. They discuss Alonzo’s upbringing, his relationship with his family, and the journey of becoming a father. Alonzo shares humorous anecdotes about meeting his wife and the challenges he faced during the birth of his daughter. He emphasizes the importance of strong family relationships, the role of faith in fatherhood, and the need for community support among fathers. Alonzo also discusses his work with fathers in correctional facilities and his vision for empowering families through his book, ‘The CEO Husband and CEO Father Blueprint.’
Takeaways
- Alonzo had a solid upbringing with a strong family foundation.
- He emphasizes the importance of humor in family dynamics.
- Alonzo’s relationship with his father was built on shared activities like fishing and basketball.
- He values the relationships he has with his siblings and parents today.
- Meeting his wife was a humorous and awkward experience that led to a strong bond.
- Transitioning to fatherhood brought significant changes and challenges.
- Alonzo admires his wife’s strength during childbirth and values her support.
- He believes in the importance of being present and available as a father.
- Alonzo’s work with fathers focuses on empowerment and community support.
- He encourages men to surround themselves with strong male role models.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Alonzo McKenzie
00:44 Alonzo’s Childhood and Family Dynamics
04:14 Current Family Relationships
05:05 Meeting His Wife and Early Relationship
11:29 Transition to Fatherhood
13:11 Passion for Marriage and Family
15:32 The CEO Husband and Father Blueprint
18:44 Challenges in Marriage and Fatherhood
22:22 Joy in Family Life
24:24 Work with Fathers in the Community
27:56 Future Vision for Fatherhood Work
32:47 Final Advice for Fathers
Alonzo’s book, “The CEO Husband & CEO Father Blueprint: Recognize. Lead. Transform.” can be found on Amazon at: https://a.co/d/dJ7ofao