How to Find Joy at Work: A Christian Perspective on Job Satisfaction

Happy Labor Day!

Wait… do ‘happy’ and ‘labor’ belong in the same sentence? Many people dread going to work because they are unhappy or dissatisfied with their jobs. This can make for a miserable existence, considering that most of us dads are the primary breadwinners for our families, and working is not an option.

Perhaps you’re familiar with the routine: wake up, dreading going to work. Come home from the job exhausted. Spend precious little time with the wife and kids. Go to bed. Wake up, dreading going to work. Repeat. Over and over. Day after day.    

Miserable. I know. Been there, done that.

When you enjoy your work, however, doing it is not a drudgery.

“Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life.” – Confucius

Put another way, finding personal satisfaction and passion in one’s profession makes the effort feel less like a chore and more like a fulfilling activity.

If you are not happy in your present job situation, but you would like to be, keep reading until the end.

The State of Job Satisfaction

Recent studies on job satisfaction in the U.S. show a variety of results but generally indicate that around half of American workers are highly satisfied with their jobs. However, the exact percentage can vary depending on how “happy” or “satisfied” is defined and the specific survey.

Here’s a breakdown of some key findings from recent reports:

  • Pew Research Center: A late 2024 survey found that about 50% of U.S. workers were “extremely or very satisfied” with their job overall. This study also noted that job satisfaction varies significantly by age, income, and race, with older workers and those with higher incomes reporting higher satisfaction.
  • Gallup: In a 2024 survey, only 18% of employees said they were “extremely satisfied” with their organization, which was a record low since Gallup began tracking this metric in 2008.
  • The Conference Board: A report from 2022 showed a high point in job satisfaction, with 62.3% of U.S. workers reporting satisfaction—the highest level recorded since the survey began in 1987.
  • YouGov: A 2025 report by YouGov stated that nearly 74% of American workers “love or like” their jobs.

While the numbers differ, the trend is that many factors influence job satisfaction, including pay, opportunities for promotion, work-life balance, relationships with colleagues and managers, and a sense of purpose.

Factors Contributing to Job Dissatisfaction

Dissatisfaction with pay and lack of opportunities for promotion are frequently cited as the top reasons for unhappiness at work.

The primary reasons cited for job unhappiness include:

  • Low pay and inadequate benefits: A significant portion of workers feel their pay has not kept up with the cost of living.
  • Lack of opportunities for promotion: Many workers feel they have limited chances for career growth and skill development.
  • Poor management and leadership: Employees who feel unsupported or disrespected by their managers are more likely to be unhappy.
  • Work-life balance and stress: Many workers report high levels of work-related stress, which negatively impacts their mental health and overall job satisfaction.

If you feel trapped in a job or career that is robbing you of joy, that trap is likely not inescapable.

Consider Your Options

When dealing with job dissatisfaction, you have two primary categories of options: to change your current situation or to leave it entirely.

Change Your Current Situation

Before making a drastic decision, it’s often best to try to improve your current work environment. This can be done through several strategies:

  • Identify the source of your dissatisfaction: Is it your pay, your boss, a lack of career growth, or a poor work-life balance? Pinpointing the exact problem is the first step toward finding a solution.
  • Communicate with your manager: Many issues can be resolved through an honest and professional conversation. Prepare a list of specific, actionable points, and be prepared to discuss potential solutions rather than simply complaining. For instance, you could propose new responsibilities, a more flexible schedule, or a plan for professional development.
  • Set healthy boundaries: If your dissatisfaction stems from burnout or an overwhelming workload, take steps to create a better work-life balance. This can involve declining non-essential tasks, avoiding checking work emails after hours, or making sure you use your vacation time.
  • Seek new opportunities within the company: If a different role or department might offer the change you need, explore internal job postings and network with people in those teams. A lateral move or a promotion might be the solution you’re looking for.
  • Invest in yourself: Take control of your career path. This might involve enrolling in courses, pursuing certifications, or seeking a mentor. By gaining new skills, you can increase your value and make yourself a more attractive candidate for a different role, either at your current company or elsewhere.

Exit the Situation

If you’ve exhausted all options to improve your current job or if the environment is too toxic to change, leaving may be a valid choice.

  • Plan your exit: Before you quit, it’s crucial to have a plan. Update your resume, start networking, and begin actively seeking new job opportunities. You should also consider your financial situation and ensure you have enough savings to support yourself during a job search.
  • Look for a different job: When searching, focus on companies and roles that address the specific reasons you were unhappy in your previous job. Look for a better work culture, more competitive pay, or a position that offers the kind of work you find fulfilling.
  • Change careers: For some, the dissatisfaction isn’t with a specific job but with the entire industry or career path. In this case, you may want to consider a career change. This can be a significant undertaking that may require additional training, but it can also lead to a more fulfilling and long-lasting career.

Whatever your choice, it is good to remember that joy and happiness are not the same.

Happiness or Joy?

While the two words are often used interchangeably, many people and philosophical traditions make a clear distinction between them. The core difference lies in their source, duration, and reliance on external circumstances.

Happiness is circumstantial; it is conditioned upon what is happening.

  • Source: Happiness is typically an emotion that is triggered by external circumstances. It’s a reaction to something good that happens to you.
  • Duration: It is often fleeting and temporary. It comes and goes.
  • Examples: You feel happy when you get a raise, when your favorite sports team wins, or when you receive a nice gift. The feeling is directly tied to the event.

Joy, on the other hand, is much deeper.

  • Source: Joy is an internal state of being. It’s a deeper, more profound sense of contentment and well-being that comes from within. It is not dependent on what’s happening to you.
  • Duration: Joy is more long-lasting and enduring. It can be a constant presence in your life.
  • Examples: You can feel joy in the midst of a difficult situation because your joy is rooted in your purpose, values, or spiritual beliefs. A parent can feel joy watching their child grow, even on a day when they’re stressed or tired.

In simple terms, you can be joyful even when you’re not happy. For instance, a person who does not like their work or has lost their job might not be happy, but they can still experience joy from their relationships, their faith, or the simple pleasures in life. Happiness is an emotion you feel, while joy is a state of being you cultivate.

What does the Bible say about joy?

Inspiration from the Holy Scriptures

22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. – Galatians 5:22-23

The fruit of the Spirit is what is produced within a believer when the Holy Spirit indwells them. Galatians 5:22-23 describes what that fruit looks like; joy is one of those characteristics. When a born-again Christ-follower yields to the Holy Spirit within them, He opens our eyes to God’s grace around us and fills us with joy (Romans 15:13). This joy will not be found in a fallen world; it is only fellowship with God that can make our joy complete (1 John 1:4). It is His work within us that cultivates this supernatural joy that is beyond our imagination.

God’s joy within us enables us to find joy in our labor, even in an occupation we do not like, perhaps until the right opportunity comes along. Choose to seek God and find your joy in Him.

Have a joyous Labor Day holiday!

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Introduction: The Mission of Christian Fatherhood Ministry

In Part One of this series (Fathering Strong Blog post #30 – 2025), I contrasted secular fatherhood programs and Christian faith-based fatherhood ministry. While both kinds have much value, I pointed out some of the unique characteristics of programs that are grounded in biblical principles and a theological understanding of fatherhood. I touched on the “missionary” nature of the work. In this article, I will expound on the distinctiveness of this unique mission field, the importance of financially supporting the work, and other ways to be a partner.

Fatherhood Missionary?

The term “missionary” typically refers to someone sent by a religious group to promote its faith or provide services, often in a cross-cultural or underserved context. While traditionally associated with sending individuals to foreign lands, the concept of “missionary work” can also apply to efforts within one’s own country or community, especially when there’s an explicit aim of spiritual transformation and the spreading of religious principles.

Here’s why Christian faith-based fatherhood programs can be considered “missionary” work:

  • Evangelism and Discipleship: A core aspect of Christian mission is the sharing of the Gospel (Good News of Jesus Christ) and making disciples. Faith-based fatherhood programs, by their very nature, aim to introduce fathers to Christian principles, encourage spiritual growth, and often invite them into a relationship with God. They often share biblical teachings, encourage prayer, and promote church involvement, which aligns directly with evangelistic and discipleship goals.
  • Transformation and Holistic Impact: Missionaries traditionally seek not only spiritual conversion but also holistic transformation in individuals and communities. Christian fatherhood programs aim for a similar holistic impact:
    • Spiritual Transformation: Helping fathers develop a personal faith, understanding God as their Heavenly Father, and living according to biblical values.
    • Personal Transformation: Encouraging character development, improved self-control, and emotional maturity.
    • Relational Transformation: Strengthening marriages, improving father-child bonds, and fostering healthier family dynamics, all viewed through a Christian lens.
    • Societal Transformation: Believing that stronger, faith-filled fathers will contribute to more stable families and healthier communities, ultimately reflecting God’s kingdom values.
  • Addressing Spiritual Needs: While secular programs address practical parenting needs, Christian programs go further by addressing the spiritual vacuum or brokenness that some fathers may experience. They offer a spiritual framework for understanding identity, purpose, and relationship with God, which they believe is the ultimate source of lasting change.
  • “Sent” with a Purpose: Even if not physically “sent” to a foreign land, the facilitators, mentors, and leaders of these programs often feel a strong sense of calling and purpose, believing they are “sent” by God to minister to fathers in their local community. This aligns with the Latin root of “missionary” (missio), meaning “act of sending.”
  • Cultural Engagement: While working within their own culture, these programs often engage with and seek to transform aspects of local culture that they believe are contrary to biblical teachings (e.g., negative stereotypes of fatherhood, breakdown of family values, or absence of spiritual grounding).
  • Building the Kingdom: From a Christian perspective, any work that aligns with God’s purposes and helps people grow in faith and live according to His will can be seen as “building the Kingdom of God.” Fatherhood programs, in this view, are directly contributing to that mission.

As stated last time, Christian faith-based fatherhood programs are considered “missionary” because they are driven by a religious mandate to share faith, promote spiritual and holistic transformation, and contribute to the well-being of individuals and communities according to Christian principles, even when operating within a local context.

Five Practical Ways to Support This Missionary Work

Supporting Christian fatherhood work in your community is a meaningful way to strengthen families and impact future generations. Here are several ways individuals can get involved:

1. Direct Financial Support:

  • Donate to Local Ministries: Identify Christian non-profits or church-based programs specifically focused on fatherhood in your area. Many rely on donations to provide resources, run workshops, and offer support services for free or at low cost to fathers. Urban Light Ministries is one such ministry.
  • Sponsor a Dad or Program: Some organizations offer specific sponsorship opportunities, allowing you to cover the cost of a father’s participation in a course or to support a cohort of dads through a program.
  • Regular Giving: Set up recurring donations, even small amounts, to provide consistent support to these ministries, helping them with ongoing operational costs.

2. Volunteer Your Time and Skills:

  • Become a Mentor: If you are an experienced father (or even a man with strong faith and character), consider becoming a mentor. Many programs connect seasoned dads with younger or struggling fathers to offer guidance, wisdom, and a listening ear. This “iron sharpening iron” dynamic is highly valued.
  • Program Facilitator/Leader: If you have leadership skills, you could train to facilitate fatherhood classes, workshops, or small groups. This involves leading discussions, teaching biblical principles of fatherhood, and fostering a supportive environment.
  • Virtual Group Moderator: Volunteer to lead a dad’s online group on the Fathering Strong® mobile app. As a moderator, you will make it possible for fathers to form community around common life circumstances and challenges in a safe, private setting.
  • Event Support: Help organize and run family-friendly activities, father-child events (like sporting days, camping trips, or community service projects), or workshops. This could involve everything from setting up to managing registrations, providing food, or supervising children.
  • Administrative/Operational Help: Programs often need help with administrative tasks, marketing, communications, data entry, or even website management. Offer your professional skills pro-bono.
  • Resource Development: Help create or curate resources like prayer cards, devotionals, Bible reading plans, or Christian parenting guides.
  • Childcare: Providing childcare during fatherhood workshops or events can make it much easier for dads to attend.

3. Pray Actively:

  • Consistent Prayer: Commit to regularly praying for fathers in your community, for the effectiveness of fatherhood programs, for the leaders and mentors, and for the children and families impacted.
  • Prayer Groups: Join or start a prayer group specifically focused on fatherhood initiatives.

4. Promote and Advocate:

  • Spread Awareness: Share information about local Christian fatherhood programs within your church, community groups, and social networks. Many dads don’t know these resources exist.
  • Invite and Encourage: Personally invite fathers you know who might benefit from these programs to attend. Offer to accompany them or help with transportation.
  • Share Testimonies: If you’ve been impacted by such a program or know someone who has, share positive testimonies to inspire others.
  • Advocate in Your Church: Encourage your church leadership to prioritize and support fatherhood ministry, perhaps by integrating fatherhood content into men’s ministries, Sunday school, or sermons.

5. Offer Practical Assistance:

  • Provide Meals/Snacks: Offer to provide meals or snacks for program sessions, which can be a significant draw and practical support for attendees.
  • Transportation: Help with transportation for fathers who might otherwise struggle to get to program locations.
  • Resource Library: Contribute books, Christian parenting guides, marriage enrichment materials, or other relevant resources to a program’s resource library.
  • Gift Incentives: Programs sometimes offer small incentives (like gift cards for gas or groceries) to encourage participation. You could donate funds specifically for these.

Do you have other ideas? Let me know by sending an email to ewilliams@urbanlight.org. By engaging in these various forms of support, you can become an active participant in the “missionary” work of strengthening Christian fatherhood, which in turn nurtures stronger families and communities.

Your Church Can Be a Missionary Partner

Urban Light Ministries offers bible-based curriculum, books, devotionals and other educational and inspirational resources for fathers. We can conduct fatherhood workshops and classes, and train facilitators at your church. We also provide the free Fathering Strong® mobile app for forming virtual groups of the dads in your church. This tool will enable your dads to support one another along their fatherhood journeys, share stories, ask for help, and get the support they need to be their best as fathers and men.

Do you have a vision to go beyond having a fatherhood group or class for your church?  Many years of experience have prepared me to work with your leadership team to establish a customized comprehensive church-based fatherhood ministry in your church. Reach out for a consultation at ewilliams@urbanlight.org. It would be my pleasure and a blessing to serve you.

Instruction from the Holy Scriptures

 But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.” – Acts 1:8

The Disciples of Jesus were promised by Him that He would give them the power they would need to testify of Him in all the world, beginning there in Jerusalem (Acts 1:8). Sure enough, on the day of Pentecost, while they were gathered for prayer in an upper room in Jerusalem, the Holy Spirit filled them with power. Immediately, they began sharing the gospel of Christ right where they were with miraculous results. People from all over the earth, there for the festival, heard the Gospel of Christ in their own language. About three thousand were saved that day.

The Great Commission starts in your hometown. Identify those who have been called by God and sent to the mission field in your local community. Christian fatherhood ministry is no exception. Please pray for them and as you are able, provide the practical support they need to succeed in their assigned work. That way, you become a missionary partner.

Join

By joining or starting a Fathering Strong Community, you can connect with other dads for mutual encouragement, discuss the content of these blogs, share your stories, learn from others, and maybe even mentor a young dad. Be as involved as you choose to be. Register, download the free Fathering Strong app, and turn on the notifications. Do it today and become a part of the Fathering Strong Community of Dads.

Your financial contributions allow us to serve fathers at no cost. Please consider donating. Fathering Strong is powered by Urban Light Ministries, Inc., a not-for-profit organization founded in 1995 in Springfield, Ohio. Our mission is to turn the hearts of fathers to their children and the hearts of children to the Heavenly Father.  Go to www.fatheringstrong.com to donate. To learn more about Urban Light Ministries’ history, work, and mission, explore www.urbanlight.org.

Fatherhood Crisis Solution: How to Support Christian Dad Programs in 2025

Introduction: An Investment in Children and Families

It has never been more important to support the work of addressing the fatherlessness crisis in your community, wherever you live. Investing in local fatherhood programs is an investment in the well-being of children, the stability of families, and the overall health and prosperity of the entire community. When fathers are actively involved, it strengthens the entire family unit. It can reduce stress on mothers, improve co-parent relationships, and foster overall family well-being.

A community with strong, engaged fathers often sees a reduction in social problems like crime, youth violence, and school dropouts. It contributes to a more stable and thriving environment for everyone. A confluence of factors, including evolving societal roles, persistent challenges faced by fathers, and the undeniable positive impact of engaged fathers on children, families, and the community at large, makes charitable donations of all sizes to fatherhood programs vital.

Your financial support recognizes that fathers are not just “helpers” but vital and irreplaceable figures in a child’s life. Many fathers today want to be more hands-on and involved in their children’s lives than previous generations. They seek to be nurturing caregivers, not just providers. As the roles of fathers expand, so does the need for programs that specifically address their unique needs and challenges, offering parenting skills, relationship education, and economic stability resources.

How Local Programs Help

Local fatherhood programs play a vital role by:

  • Providing Parenting Education: Offering skills-based parenting workshops and counseling that equip fathers with tools for positive discipline, communication, and child development.
  • Building Support Networks: Creating opportunities for fathers to connect with peers, share experiences, and receive emotional and practical support.
  • Promoting Economic Stability: Integrating job training, career advancement, and financial literacy to help fathers provide for their families.
  • Strengthening Co-Parenting: Offering resources and mediation to improve communication and cooperation between parents, regardless of their relationship status.
  • Addressing Systemic Barriers: Working with child welfare agencies, courts, and other institutions to create more father-inclusive practices.
  • Challenging Stereotypes: Highlighting positive stories of fatherhood and promoting a culture that values and supports fathers as essential caregivers.

The Unique Characteristics of Christian Faith-Based Fatherhood Programs

Christian faith-based fatherhood programs possess several unique characteristics that distinguish them from secular programs, largely stemming from their grounding in biblical principles and a theological understanding of fatherhood. Here are some key elements:

1. Foundation in Biblical Principles and God as the Ultimate Father:

  • Divine Model: Christian programs emphasize that human fatherhood is a reflection of God the Father’s relationship with humanity. God’s attributes of love, provision, guidance, discipline, forgiveness, and faithfulness serve as the ultimate model for earthly fathers.
  • Scriptural Guidance: The Bible is seen as the authoritative source of wisdom for parenting and family life. Programs will frequently draw on specific verses and stories (e.g., Ephesians 6:4, Deuteronomy 6, the parable of the Prodigal Son) to teach fathers how to nurture, instruct, and lead their children “in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.”
  • Vocation and Calling: Fatherhood is often presented as a sacred calling or vocation, not just a biological or social role. This instills a sense of profound responsibility and purpose in fathers, believing they are entrusted by God with the care and spiritual formation of their children.

2. Emphasis on Spiritual Leadership:

  • Primary Disciplers: Christian programs often highlight the father’s role as the primary spiritual leader and discipler in the home. This means actively teaching children about faith, engaging in prayer, reading the Bible together, and modeling Christian values.
  • Faith Transmission: A central goal is the intentional transmission of faith from father to child. This goes beyond simply providing for physical needs and includes fostering a spiritual legacy.
  • Moral and Ethical Foundation: Fatherhood ministry will emphasize biblical morality and ethics as the basis for decision-making and character development in children.

3. Integration of Faith Practices and Spiritual Growth:

  • Prayer and Devotion: Programs encourage fathers to incorporate prayer, personal Bible study, and family devotions into their daily lives. They may offer practical guidance on how to lead these spiritual practices effectively.
  • Church and Community Involvement: Participation in a local church community is often a strong component, recognizing the importance of corporate worship, spiritual support, and mentorship from other believers.
  • Holiness and Sanctification: The personal spiritual growth of the father is seen as crucial. Programs encourage fathers to strive for holiness, confess sins, seek forgiveness, and allow their own walk with God to shape their parenting.

4. Focus on Grace and Forgiveness:

  • Modeling God’s Grace: Fathers are taught to extend grace and forgiveness to their children, reflecting God’s merciful nature. This contrasts with a purely rules-based approach to discipline and emphasizes love, patience, and understanding.
  • Dealing with Imperfection: Acknowledging that no father is perfect, Christian programs provide a framework for dealing with mistakes and shortcomings through repentance, forgiveness, and relying on God’s grace for strength.

5. Emphasis on Relationships (with God, Spouse, and Children):

  • Relationship with God: The father’s personal relationship with God is foundational. It’s believed that a strong spiritual life enables a father to better love and lead his family.
  • Marital Relationship: Many programs stress the importance of the father’s relationship with the mother of his children (whether married or co-parenting). Loving and respecting the mother is seen as a vital example for children and a key to family stability.
  • Intentionality in Relationships: Fathers are encouraged to be present, engaged, and intentional in building strong, loving relationships with each of their children, understanding their individual needs and personalities.

6. Accountability and Community:

  • Peer Support: Christian fatherhood programs often foster small group communities where fathers can share struggles, offer encouragement, and hold each other accountable to their commitments.
  • Mentorship: The idea of older, more mature Christian men mentoring younger fathers is a common element, providing guidance and wisdom from experience.

In essence, while secular fatherhood programs may focus on practical parenting skills, communication techniques, and emotional regulation, Christian faith-based programs integrate these elements within a broader theological framework. They aim to equip fathers not just with effective parenting strategies but with a sense of divine purpose, spiritual grounding, and a calling to raise children who understand and embrace Christian faith and values.

Sustaining Faith-Based Fatherhood Ministry

Because of the bible-based and Christian spiritual content of these programs, government and secular foundation support is not likely. Therefore, private financial support is essential for sustaining the work of fatherhood ministries. The financial backing of these programs and the nonprofit organizations that operate them by individuals, businesses, and Christian foundations is necessary.

Christian faith-based fatherhood programs are “missionary” because they are driven by a religious mandate to share faith, promote spiritual and holistic transformation, and contribute to the well-being of individuals and communities according to Christian principles, even when operating within a local context. I urge you to consider supporting fatherhood missionaries. More on that in the next Fathering Strong blog post.

Urban Light Ministries is one such organization. Donations to support its fatherhood mission may be made online at https://givebutter.com/urbanlightdonation. The recently passed “One Big Beautiful Bill Act” includes several provisions that aim to encourage charitable giving, particularly for individuals who do not itemize their deductions. It includes a provision that has the potential to strengthen grassroots fundraising: The 90% of taxpayers who don’t itemize will now be able to deduct up to $1,000 (or $2,000 for joint filers) in charitable contributions each year. Consult your tax advisor for information about that.

Launching Church Fatherhood Ministry

Urban Light Ministries offers bible-based curriculum, books, devotionals, and other educational and inspirational resources for fathers. We can conduct fatherhood workshops and classes, and train facilitators. We also provide the free Fathering Strong® mobile app for forming virtual groups of dads in your church. This tool will enable your dads to support one another along their fatherhood journeys, share stories, ask for help, and get the support they need to be their best as fathers and men.

Do you have a vision to go beyond having a fatherhood group or class for your church?  Many years of experience have prepared me to work with your leadership team to establish a customized, comprehensive church-based fatherhood ministry in your church. Reach out for a consultation at ewilliams@urbanlight.org. It would be my pleasure and a blessing to serve you.

Instruction From The Holy Scriptures

Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit… –Matthew 28:19

The Great Commission is the Lord Jesus’s marching orders to His followers to go about sharing the gospel (the good news about His sacrificial death and resurrection for the salvation of the lost) with everyone everywhere, and to make disciples (others who become faithful followers). Those who are called and sent by Him to obey this directive vocationally should be supported by those who are not so called and sent. We are admonished to “not neglect to do good and to share what you have, for such sacrifices are pleasing to God (Heb. 13:16).” In this way, missionaries of all types, locally and internationally, are equipped to do their work well. Those who support them, together with those who are doing the work, offer pleasing sacrifices to the Lord with their obedience. This is a core tenet of the Christian faith. Thank you for your partnership.

In the next Fathering Strong Bog post (#31, 2025) we will dig deeper into the topic of Christian fatherhood work as an important mission field, and how to become a missionary partner.  

Join

By joining or starting a Fathering Strong Community, you can connect with other dads for mutual encouragement, discuss the content of these blogs, share your stories, learn from others, and maybe even mentor a young dad. Be as involved as you choose to be. Register, download the free Fathering Strong app, and turn on the notifications. Do it today and become a part of the Fathering Strong Community of Dads.

Your financial contributions allow us to serve fathers at no cost. Please consider donating. Fathering Strong is powered by Urban Light Ministries, Inc., a not-for-profit organization founded in 1995 in Springfield, Ohio. Our mission is to turn the hearts of fathers to their children and the hearts of children to the Heavenly Father.  Go to www.fatheringstrong.com to donate. To learn more about Urban Light Ministries’ history, work, and mission, explore www.urbanlight.org.

Faith Over Fear: Practical Strategies for Parental Stress

Introduction

As we discussed last week in Blog Post #28 -“How to Manage Parenting Stress: 8 Proven Strategies for Overwhelmed Parents,” when adults are overwhelmed by stress, it impacts them personally, their marriages, and their ability to parent effectively, leading to a cascade of negative consequences for their children’s development and well-being. In this post, we investigate the pervasiveness of the problem of unmanaged stress and offer suggestions for using the power of faith to overcome it. 

U.S. Parents Under Pressure

Unmanaged stress is widespread among parents in the U.S., with recent data from the Department of Health and Human Services highlighting a significant disparity compared to other adults. According to the article:

  • 33% of parents reported high levels of stress in the past month in 2023, compared to 20% of other adults.
  • 48% of parents stated that most days their stress is completely overwhelming, whereas only 26% of other adults reported the same.
  • 41% of parents reported that most days they are so stressed they cannot function, double the percentage reported by non-parents.

Factors Contributing to Parental Stress:

  • Financial Strain: Worries about money, economic instability, and poverty are major stressors. Childcare costs, health and education expenses, and income insecurity significantly contribute to this. 66% of parents report feeling consumed by worries about money, compared to 39% of other adults.
  • Time Demands: Parents, especially mothers, are working more hours, yet still disproportionately shoulder household work and childcare responsibilities.
  • Children’s Health and Safety: Concerns about children’s mental health (an “epidemic” of depression, anxiety, loneliness, and suicide among youth), physical health, bullying, substance use, and school shootings are significant sources of stress.
  • Parental Isolation and Loneliness: A substantial number of parents, particularly single parents, experience loneliness.
  • Technology and Social Media: Nearly 70% of parents report increased difficulty parenting due to technology and social media, citing concerns about cyberbullying, screen time, and unrealistic “comparison culture” propagated by online trends.
  • Cultural Pressures: Societal expectations for “perfect” parenting and children’s achievements contribute to burnout.
  • Existing Mental Health Conditions: In 2021-2022, 23.9% of parents (20.3 million) had a mental illness, and 5.7% (4.8 million) had a serious mental illness. Mothers are disproportionately affected by mental health conditions, particularly during the perinatal period.
  • Broader Societal Issues: Parents are also stressed about larger issues like climate change, sexual assault, and gun control.

The U.S. Surgeon General has issued a public health advisory on parental mental health and well-being, emphasizing that parental stress is a critical public health issue with significant impacts on families, children, and society at large.

Especially for Fathers

In the last post (Fathering Strong Blog Post #28 – 2025), we offered some strategies for managing parental stress in healthy ways. We touched upon the importance of faith in dealing with the anxieties of life.  More on that now, especially for fathers. 

Why a father focus? Because, generally, women are significantly more likely to seek professional counseling or therapy than men. While exact figures can vary depending on the specific study, age group, and type of mental health treatment, the trend is consistently observed.

Here’s a summary of the difference based on available data:

  • Overall Mental Health Treatment: The CDC reports that recent surveys indicate that around 24.7% of women (and those assigned female at birth) received some form of mental health treatment, compared to 13.4% of men. This suggests women are nearly twice as likely to receive mental health treatment overall.
  • Counseling/Therapy Specifically: When looking specifically at counseling or therapy, another report says that 11.7% of women participated in such services compared to just 7.2% of men. This means women are roughly 1.6 times more likely to seek counseling or therapy than men.
  • Perceived Need vs. Seeking Care: A higher share of women (50%) than men (35%) reported feeling they needed mental health services in the past two years. However, among those who did perceive a need, similar rates of women (60%) and men (56%) actually sought care. This suggests that the initial difference in seeking care might stem more from women being more likely to recognize or acknowledge a need for help.

Reasons for this disparity often include:

  • Societal Norms and Masculinity Stereotypes: The study titled Men’s Mental Health Matters reveals that men are often socialized to be self-reliant, suppress emotions, and view seeking help as a sign of weakness or a threat to their masculinity. This can create a significant barrier to seeking professional support.

Also, men may be less willing to openly discuss their emotions, thoughts, and beliefs, which is a core component of many therapeutic approaches. Women are generally more likely to focus on emotions as a coping strategy, whereas men might be more prone to externalizing problems or relying on other, less healthy coping mechanisms (e.g., substance abuse).

While men and women experience similar rates of overall psychiatric disorders, some disorders (like depression and anxiety) are diagnosed more frequently in women, while men might experience different manifestations or be more likely to be diagnosed with substance abuse disorders. Finally, women may be more attuned to their emotional problems and more likely to recognize when they need professional intervention.

It’s important to note that while these are general trends, individual experiences vary. There’s a growing push to destigmatize mental health care for everyone and to develop therapeutic approaches that are more accessible and appealing to men.

Managing Stress Through Faith

For men or women, fathers or mothers, the Christian faith offers a powerful framework and a range of practical tools for managing stress, drawing on spiritual principles, community, and a unique perspective on life’s challenges. It’s not a magic cure for all stress, and it doesn’t negate the need for professional help when necessary, but it provides profound resources.

Here’s how Christian faith can empower individuals in managing stress:

1. Trust in God’s Sovereignty and Providence:

  • Surrender and Control: A core tenet is trusting that God is ultimately in control, even when circumstances feel chaotic. This allows individuals to surrender anxieties and burdens to a higher power rather than feeling solely responsible for every outcome. Philippians 4:6-7 (“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”) is a key verse here.
  • Purpose in Suffering: Christians often view trials and stress as opportunities for spiritual growth and character development, rather than meaningless suffering. Romans 8:28 (“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”) offers comfort and perspective.

2. The Power of Prayer:

  • Direct Communication: Prayer is seen as a direct line of communication with God, allowing believers to express their worries, fears, and needs. This act of “casting cares upon Him” (1 Peter 5:7) can be incredibly liberating and bring a sense of relief.
  • Finding Peace: The act of prayer can shift focus from the problem to God’s presence, leading to a profound sense of peace that “surpasses all understanding.” It helps quiet the mind and offers reassurance that one is not alone.
  • Alignment and Intention: Prayer can help align thoughts and focus intentions, activating positive psychological mechanisms like hope, meaning, and a sense of structure.

3. Comfort and Guidance from Scripture:

  • Timeless Wisdom: The Bible is seen as a source of comfort, wisdom, and guidance for navigating life’s challenges, including stress. Meditating on verses that speak to anxiety, fear, and God’s promises can bring reassurance and a renewed perspective.
  • Renewing the Mind: Romans 12:2 encourages believers to “be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” This involves intentionally focusing on God’s truth rather than yielding to negative thoughts and worries.

4. Importance of Community and Support:

  • Bearing Burdens: Christianity emphasizes living in community and “carrying each other’s burdens” (Galatians 6:2). This means not having to face stress alone, but finding support, encouragement, and prayer from fellow believers in a church, small group, or trusted friends.
  • Reduced Isolation: Connecting with a faith community combats loneliness and provides a sense of belonging, which is crucial for mental well-being.

5. Practicing Gratitude and Worship:

  • Shift in Perspective: Cultivating a spirit of gratitude, as encouraged in 1 Thessalonians 5:18 (“give thanks in all circumstances”), shifts focus from stressors to blessings. This positive outlook can loosen the grip of stress.
  • Focus on God’s Goodness: Worship, whether through singing, prayer, or quiet contemplation, turns attention away from personal struggles and towards God’s goodness and majesty, fostering a sense of awe and peace. (“…whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” – Philippians 4:8) 

6. Emphasis on Rest and Self-Care:

  • Biblical Mandate for Rest: The concept of the Sabbath (Exodus 20:8-10) highlights the biblical importance of rest and renewal. Christians are encouraged to prioritize physical, mental, and spiritual rest, acknowledging that they are not designed to carry all burdens alone.
  • Body as a Temple: The Christian teaching that the body is a temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20) encourages healthy self-care practices like proper sleep, nutrition, and exercise, which are vital for managing stress.

7. Forgiveness and Compassion:

  • Releasing Bitterness: The emphasis on forgiveness, both for oneself and others, can release individuals from the burden of bitterness and resentment, which are significant sources of chronic stress. (Matthew 6:12, 14)
  • Self-Compassion: Recognizing that one is created in God’s image and is precious in His sight encourages self-compassion, reducing self-judgment and criticism during stressful times. 

While Christian faith offers immense power in stress management, it’s also important to acknowledge that faith does not always eliminate stress or mental health challenges. Christians can and do experience anxiety, depression, and other struggles. In these cases, faith often serves as a foundation for seeking appropriate professional help, recognizing that God also works through medical and therapeutic means.

Instruction From The Holy Scriptures

6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. – Philippians 4:6-7 NIV

Summary

Rather than being overwhelmed by the stress of life and parenting, by faith, turn over every one of your cares and concerns to God in prayer. In thankfulness that He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7), ask Him to meet every need. Then, rest in confidence. As you do, the supernatural peace of God will protect your heart and mind from debilitating anxiety. That is God’s promise to His children. 

Disclaimer

Please note: I am not a licensed therapist or mental health professional. This blog post offers scripture, general information and personal insights on stress management, and is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing significant stress or mental health concerns, please consult with a qualified healthcare provider.

Please note: I am not a licensed therapist or mental health professional. This blog post offers scripture, general information and personal insights on stress management, and is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing significant stress or mental health concerns, please consult with a qualified healthcare provider.

For more blog posts on important fatherhood topics go to the blog page on the Urbanlight.org website.

How to Create a Thriving Fatherhood Ministry in Your Church: Part 2

Introduction

As I suggested last time, impactful congregations are foundational to healthy communities. Healthy communities, in turn, provide safer and more prosperous environments for children and families. This positive cycle results in better neighborhoods, more effective schools, reduced crime, and so much more—a true reflection of Jesus’ command for His followers to be “the salt and light of the world.” In that episode, I recommended two best practices for effective church-based fatherhood ministry: setting the groundwork with foundational principles and developing a plan for engaging fathers.

In this installment of the Fathering Strong Blog, we’ll delve into three more best practices for building and sustaining an effective church-based fatherhood ministry.

Best Practices

III. Equipping Fathers:

  • Provide Resources and Tools: Offer practical, easy-to-use resources like family prayer cards, short devotionals, Bible reading plans, and Christian parenting guides.
  • Workshops and Classes: Host workshops and seminars on specific topics such as:
    • Understanding a father’s biblical role.
    • Effective discipline methods.
    • Nurturing a child’s spiritual growth.
    • Marriage enrichment.
    • Balancing work and family.
  • Mentorship Programs: Facilitate connections between older, experienced fathers and younger dads. This can be one-on-one or through facilitated small groups.

17 As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another. – Proverbs 27:17 NIV

This proverb highlights the idea that interactions with other men can improve and refine a person’s character and parenting skills, just as one piece of iron can sharpen another. 

  • Integrate into Existing Ministries: Incorporate fatherhood-focused content into your men’s ministry, small groups, and Sunday school classes.
  • Sermon Application: Regularly feature applications for fathers in sermons, not just on Father’s Day.

IV. Empowering Fathers:

  • Vision Casting: Give fathers a clear vision for their role as spiritual leaders in their homes and the impact they can have on their children and generations to come.
  • Leadership Opportunities: Invite fathers into visible leadership roles within the church and family-focused ministries, allowing them to use their gifts and grow.
  • Accountability Circles: Create small groups or “huddles” where dads can pray for each other, share challenges, and provide mutual encouragement.
  • Encourage Self-Care: Remind fathers of the importance of their own spiritual, emotional, and physical well-being.
  • Long-Term Vision: Emphasize that fatherhood ministry is a long-term commitment, fostering ongoing growth and support.

V. Practical Activities & Ideas:

  • Father-Child Activities: Organize events that strengthen the bond between fathers and their children, such as:
    • Sporting events
    • Camping trips
    • Building/crafting projects
    • Community service projects
    • Family worship nights
  • Peer Support Groups: Create dedicated groups for young fathers to share experiences, challenges, and successes.
  • Resource Library: Establish a collection of books, materials, and online resources on parenting, marriage, and spiritual development.
  • Informal Discussion Topics: Use simple, appealing discussion topics to spark conversation, such as “Balancing work and family life” or “Overcoming common parenting challenges.”
  • Anonymous Q&A: Allow young fathers to submit questions anonymously for discussion among more experienced dads.

By implementing these best practices, churches can create robust and impactful fatherhood ministries that equip men to lead their families with conviction, humility, and love, ultimately strengthening the church and beyond.

Resources

Several organizations and approaches emerge as highly effective in supporting church-based fatherhood ministries. These typically provide resources, training, and a framework for local churches to implement their own programs.

Here are four prominent examples that offer significant support for churches:

  1. Manhood Journey: This organization is highly focused on equipping fathers to be disciple-makers in their homes. They offer a wealth of resources, including video-based courses, Bible studies for fathers and sons, and customizable fatherhood events. They emphasize a holistic approach to fatherhood, addressing spiritual, relational, and practical aspects. Many churches partner with Manhood Journey to utilize their curriculum and training for their men’s and fatherhood ministries. https://manhoodjourney.org/
  2. Kingdom Dads: Their goal is to transform culture by equipping dads to love and lead their families toward God’s kingdom. In partnership with Christian churches, schools, and workplaces, Kingdom Dads equips small group cohorts of dads to walk through intentional and Gospel-centered practices together. Their partnership and small group cohort model are the heart of their ability to pursue faithfulness together. https://kingdomdads.org/
  3. Fathers in the Field: With a unique focus on mentoring fatherless boys, this ministry equips churches to recruit and train “Mentor Fathers” who commit to a long-term relationship with a fatherless boy, providing spiritual guidance, practical skills, and a positive male role model. This program is powerful for churches looking to directly impact the fatherless within their communities and provides a structured model for mentorship. https://www.fathersinthefield.com/
  4. Fathering Strong® powered by Urban Light Ministries: This ministry offers a new mobile app for building virtual communities of fathers who are dedicated to supporting each other through their fathering and faith journeys while building stronger families and communities. As a powerful accompaniment to in-person groups, fathers can build online communities to share stories, share prayer requests, offer help to others and get the support they need 24/7/365. The ministry offers many resources for fathers, including devotionals, classes, books, a weekly podcast, a weekly blog, and more. https://urbanlight.org/

Key Characteristics of Successful Church-Based Fatherhood Ministries (drawing from these and other effective models):

  • Biblically Grounded: They emphasize the spiritual calling of fathers.
  • Relational and Mentorship-Focused: They prioritize building strong connections among men and creating opportunities for mentorship.
  • Practical and Equipping: They offer tangible resources, skills, and training that help fathers in their everyday lives.
  • Supportive and Encouraging: They create a non-judgmental environment where fathers can be open about their struggles and receive encouragement.
  • Integrated with the Church: They are not a separate silo but are woven into the fabric of the church’s overall ministry to men and families.

Many churches also develop their own unique programs, often drawing inspiration and resources from organizations like those listed above to fit their specific congregational needs.

Starting or Growing Your Church’s Fatherhood Ministry

Imagine a church where fathers are deeply engaged, genuinely encouraged, and effectively equipped to lead their families. A biblically centered fatherhood ministry can create this reality, leading to stronger families and a profound impact on your community for God’s glory.

Is your church seeking a practical strategy to move your vision for fatherhood ministry forward? Do you need guidance on implementing best practices to truly connect with the fathers in your congregation?

As a fatherhood practitioner and ministry leader with decades of experience, I offer tailored consulting and coaching. My goal is to help your church establish its own thriving fatherhood ministry and extend its reach to fathers in the wider community.

Let’s connect and discuss how to turn your vision into a vibrant reality. Email me at ewilliams@urbanlight.org.

Instruction From The Holy Scriptures

And now a word to you parents. Don’t keep on scolding and nagging your children, making them angry and resentful. Rather, bring them up with the loving discipline the Lord himself approves, with suggestions and godly advice. – Ephesians 6:4 TLB

This verse emphasizes the responsibility of fathers to raise their children in a way that avoids anger and fosters spiritual growth through teaching and guidance. In essence, Ephesians 6:4 calls for a balanced approach to parenting, one that avoids causing anger while actively nurturing a child’s spiritual life.

Since most fathers were not raised this way, training in biblically based male nurturance is necessary. 

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BEST PRACTICES FOR CHURCH-BASED FATHERHOOD MINISTRY – Part 1

Introduction

Over the last two weeks, the Fathering Strong Weekly Blog posts have zeroed in on fatherhood and the Christian Church. In Week #24’s post, I wrote about the Fatherhood Crisis in the Church. In #25, the topic was Revolutionizing Fatherhood Ministry in the Church. Why this emphasis? It’s because church-based fatherhood ministries engage, equip, and empower men for their God-given parenting roles. Those men become Godly fathers who, in covenant with their spouses, work to build strong families. Strong families contribute to building solid congregations.

And that’s only the beginning. Solid congregations contribute to healthy communities. Healthy communities are safer and more prosperous places for children and families. Safe and prosperous communities have better neighborhoods, effective schools, less crime, and on and on. It is living out Jesus’ call for His followers to be the salt and light of the world.

Salt and Light

13 “You are the salt of the earth; but if the salt loses its flavor, how shall it be seasoned? It is then good for nothing but to be thrown out and trampled underfoot by men.

14 “You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. 15 Nor do they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. 16 Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven. – Matthew 5:13-16 NKJV

This is a powerful and foundational passage from Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount, where He uses two vivid metaphors – salt and light – to describe the essential role and impact His followers are to have in the world.

In this passage, Jesus isn’t just offering a nice sentiment; He’s issuing a profound mandate. He tells His disciples – and by extension, all who follow Him – that they are intrinsically “the salt of the earth” and “the light of the world.” This isn’t a call to become something they are not, but rather to live out who they already are in Him.

“You are the salt of the earth”:

In ancient times, salt had several vital uses:

  1. Preservation: It prevented decay and corruption. As salt, believers are called to be a preserving influence in a world prone to moral and spiritual decay. They are to stand against the forces of corruption and uphold righteousness.
  2. Flavor/Taste: Salt enhances flavor. Christians are to bring a distinct, God-honoring “flavor” to society, making life richer and more meaningful through their character, values, and actions.
  3. Purification/Healing: Salt had cleansing properties. Believers can bring healing and purification to broken systems and relationships.

The warning, “if the salt loses its saltiness,” is stark. If followers of Jesus compromise their distinctiveness, if they blend in with the world to the point of losing their unique preserving and flavoring qualities, they become useless for the very purpose God intended for them. Their spiritual vitality is lost, and their impact becomes negligible.

“You are the light of the world”:

Light’s purpose is to illuminate, guide, and dispel darkness.

  1. Revelation/Truth: Light reveals what is true and exposes what is hidden. Believers are called to shine the truth of God’s Word and the reality of His Kingdom into a world often shrouded in spiritual darkness, ignorance, and deception.
  2. Guidance: Light helps people see where they are going. Christians are to be beacons of hope, offering moral and spiritual guidance to a lost and wandering humanity.
  3. Visibility: A “town built on a hill cannot be hidden,” nor should a lamp be covered. Our faith is not meant to be private or concealed. It’s meant to be visible, lived out openly and courageously.

The command, “let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven,” emphasizes that our “light” is expressed through our actions. It’s not about self-glorification or drawing attention to ourselves, but about living lives that are so distinctly righteous, loving, and good, that they point others beyond us to God Himself. Our transformed lives become a living testimony, leading others to acknowledge and praise the Source of all light.

Conclusion: Taken together, these metaphors are a powerful call to radical distinctiveness and proactive influence. Along with proclaiming the soul-saving gospel of Jesus Christ, living out our faith in our homes and communities as individuals and as families makes an eternal difference in the world. With support and encouragement, Godly fathers can and should play a key role in leading their families to fulfill the Lord’s mandate to live as salt and light. In doing so, they contribute to preserving their communities from decay and dispelling the darkness by their presence.

Church-based fatherhood ministries play a vital role in strengthening families and communities by equipping men to be godly fathers. Beginning with this episode of the Fathering Strong Blog we will offer five best practices for pastors and leaders for creating and sustaining an effective fatherhood ministry.

I. Foundational Principles for Church-Based Fatherhood Ministry:

  • Biblical Focus: Ground the ministry in biblical principles of fatherhood, emphasizing the father’s role as a spiritual leader, protector, provider, and stabilizer for his family.

4 And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord. – Eph. 6:4 NKJV

4 “Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one! 5 You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength.

6 “And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart. 7 You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up. 8 You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. 9 You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates. – Deuteronomy 6:4-9

  • Gospel-Centered: Remind fathers of their identity in Christ and the grace available to them. Acknowledge struggles and failures, offering hope and affirmation through the Gospel.
  • Disciple-Making: View fatherhood ministry as a core part of discipling men to become intentional spiritual leaders in their homes and beyond.
  • Holistic Approach: Address not only spiritual growth but also practical aspects of parenting, marriage, finances, and personal well-being.
  • Community and Accountability: Foster a safe space for men to share their joys and struggles, build deep friendships, and hold each other accountable.

II. Engaging Fathers:

  • Start Simple and Informal: Don’t over-structure initially. Begin with informal gatherings like breakfasts, barbecues, or “drop-in” socials to build relationships and trust.
  • Relational Engagement: Prioritize personal invitation and genuine connection. Pastors and leaders should create opportunities for men to speak openly without fear of judgment.
  • Address Felt Needs: Identify common challenges and concerns among fathers in your congregation (e.g., balancing work/family, discipline, spiritual leadership) and tailor content to those needs.
  • Normalize Struggle: Use preaching and testimonies to show that spiritual struggle is normal and growth is an ongoing process.
  • Public Affirmation: Publicly affirm and commission fathers during worship services, reminding them of their sacred calling.

In the next Fathering Strong Blog post, we will share three more best practices for creating and sustaining effective fatherhood ministry. Then we will offer suggestions for deploying your dads into your community as faith-filled mentors of young fathers and of fatherless boys.

Getting Your Church Started

If you are interested in starting or growing a father-focused ministry for discipling men in your church, we recommend that you start by praying, seeking wisdom and guidance from Father God, the Creator of family while looking to the Holy Scriptures for inspiration.

We can help you create a strategy for moving your God-given vision into practical reality, and for implementing these best practices with your fathers. Reach out to me for a conversation about getting started. Fatherhood ministry can revolutionize your church by helping to build strong families who impact your community for God’s glory. Email me personally at ewilliams@urbanlight.org.

Instruction from the Holy Scriptures

The righteous man walks in his integrity;
His children are blessed after him. – Proverbs 20:7 NKJV

This verse emphasizes the importance of living a life of integrity, which is rewarded not only for the individual but also for their descendants. Living with integrity means being honest, fair, and upright in all one’s dealings and decisions.  The verse emphasizes the positive impact of a righteous life on future generations. The promise is that children who witness and are raised by a parent who lives with high character are more likely to inherit those same values and experience positive outcomes in their own lives. 

Intentional father-focused ministry helps dads become, not perfect, but positive examples of principled parenting that can benefit not only his children, but his family for generations to come. 

Next Week: BEST PRACTICES FOR CHURCH-BASED FATHERHOOD MINISTRY – Part 2

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By joining or starting a Fathering Strong Community, you can connect with other dads for mutual encouragement, discuss the content of these blogs, share your stories, learn from others, and maybe even mentor a young dad. Be as involved as you choose to be. Register, download the free Fathering Strong app, and turn on the notifications. Do it today and become a part of the Fathering Strong Community of Dads.

Your financial contributions allow us to serve fathers at no cost. Please consider donating. Fathering Strong is powered by Urban Light Ministries, Inc., a not-for-profit organization founded in 1995 in Springfield, Ohio. Our mission is to turn the hearts of fathers to their children and the hearts of children to the Heavenly Father.  Go to www.fatheringstrong.com to donate. To learn more about Urban Light Ministries’ history, work, and mission, explore www.urbanlight.org.