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Father Love

Father Love

Restoring the Family to the Creator’s Design

In the beginning, the Creator designed the perfect plan for the establishment, nurturance, maintenance, and perpetuation of the human race.  The family.  Fathers and mothers raising children together in the same home, and in the worship and discipline of the Lord.  Loving parents providing everything their children need to grow up holistically healthy, safe, educated, skilled, and prepared to eventually raise their own families.  It is a simple plan, really.  Father and mother become parenting partners for life.  Each child completes their education, begins a career, falls in love, gets married, and has children.  Repeat generation after generation. 

Fast forward.  What do we see today?  Unwed birth rates as high as 70%.  The father absence crisis.  Divorce.  Single parent households.  The resulting poverty, child abuse and neglect, academic failure, youth crime, behavioral, emotional and psychological problems, drug abuse.  The list goes on. 

What happened?  The divine order was rejected.  God’s original vision for the family, which was intended by Him for the healthy development of civilization, is viewed by many as antiquated.  The need for a live-in dad has been questioned.  The concept of a God-ordained male family head has been denounced as gender biased.  Men and women have been freed to practice sex outside of marriage. Becoming pregnant out of wedlock has lost its former stigma.  Hence, we are experiencing the breakdown of the family, and the failure of family formation. We are on a path toward the very collapse of society.  Is it too late to turn things around?  Perhaps.  However, as Christians, we have been given a charge to be the salt of the earth and the light of the world. 

Jesus proclaimed: 13 “You are the salt of the earth; but if the salt loses its flavor, how shall it be seasoned? It is then good for nothing but to be thrown out and trampled underfoot by men.

14 “You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. 15 Nor do they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. 16 Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven. – Matthew 5:13-16

As salt preserves meat, our responsibility is to do everything we can to keep the rotting world alive until Jesus comes again.  As darkness tries to overwhelm mankind, our job is to shine as lights to show people the Father’s love and His righteous ways.  One way we can be salt and light is by the good work of restoring the family to God’s original design, and by giving the Father the glory for all that results.  The logical place to start is in the Church.  I don’t think I’ve ever met a pastor that didn’t acknowledge there needs to be a fatherhood strengthening ministry in his church.  Because we are at crisis stage, I believe we must go beyond fatherhood classes. 

There is needed a multigenerational Christian male development and enrichment initiative.  Young men, grown men and senior men simultaneously learning, teaching, and rediscovering God’s plan.  Each with a Timothy to mentor, and each with a Paul to emulate.  It’s like the threefold cord spoken of by King Solomon (Eccl 4:9-12).  Two strands are good, but a triple-braided cord is stronger.  We need each other… sons, dads, and grandfathers… working together to restore the power of godly maleness for the sake of strengthening families.  By starting with the Church, we are positioned to raise up an army of mature, responsible, scripture informed, Spirit-filled men.  Together, we can serve as witnesses to a world that has lost the vision of the Creator’s design for humanity.      

Urban Light Ministries has begun an innovative initiative to accomplish the above, using my book Father Love – The Powerful Resource Every Child Needs and the companion study guide.  After a conversation with my friend Pastor Sam Bryant in the fall of 2018, Sam and the church leadership agreed to serve as the site for a pilot of a scripture-based enrichment class for their males.  Beginning January 6, 2019, each Sunday for thirteen weeks, the teens, college students and men meet during the Sunday School hour at Cornerstone Baptist Church in Springfield.  With the aid of video clips and a Power Point presentation, I facilitate an hour-long conversation around fatherhood, manhood and spiritual leadership in the home.  Each participant has purchased a book and study guide.  Each week they are given a reading and action steps.  The following week, a discussion is facilitated on the assigned topic.  Attendance has been averaging two dozen.  Active participation is growing each week as the guys become more comfortable.  

Father Love Dad’s Discussion Group Topics Include:

  -  Father Love Defined

  -  Love Is Patient And Kind

  -  Love Is Not Easily Angered

  -  Father Love Is Nurturing

  -  Love Bears All Things

  -  Love Endures All Things And Never Fails

  -  The Creator’s Father Love

Urban Light Ministries has also developed the POPS 101 Discussion Group.  POPS 101 is a four-session introduction to healthy fathering.  The content is appropriate for use in non-religious settings such as schools, jails, and drug rehab centers.  If you would like to know more about Father Love or POPS 101 Dad’s Discussion Groups, contact me at the address below.

Eli Williams, President

Urban Light Ministries
PO Box 3132
Springfield, OH 45501

Email: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

Phone: 937.328.0122

Mobile: 937.408.1050

www.urbanlight.org

www.thefatherlovebook.com

Father Love

New POPS 101 Class - Register Today

POPS 101 Class Starts February 28th

Are you the best dad you can be?  Do you have the skills to be the best protector, order keeper, provider and stabilizer to your family?  Sign up for this interactive session with other dads and learn how to be the best POPS you can be.

Sign up now and you will receive free access to online learning resources provided by Urban Light Ministries to continue honing your skills as a father.  FREE access to resources you can view on your phone!  Sign up today!

Dates: Thursday, Feb. 28; March 7; March 14; March 21
Time: 6pm - 7:30pm
Child Care Provided | Preregistration Required
Location: Kenwood School 
 
1421 Nagley Street 
Springfield, Ohio 45505  
Office (937) 505-4220  
 
Father Love

Dad's Discussion Group Starts September 11

Father's Join the Conversation!

Dad's Discussion Group Starts on September 11, 2018, at 7:00 pm

Don't miss this opportunity to become a better father.  The discussion topic is "Giving my kids what only I can:  My best, fully developed Father Love"

The discussion is facilitated by author Eli Williams and includes a copy of the book "Father Love" and study guide.

This is a FREE event!

Held on Tuesdays from 7 to 8 pm at McKinley Hall, Room 122 at 2624 Lexington in Springfield, OH.

Call Urban Light Ministries today to register at 937-328-0122 or email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..

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New POPS 101 Graduates

The 6-hour introductory course in healthy fathering practices was hosted by Pregnancy Resource Center of Springfield. These two young men, Forrest Wilt and Tommy Kelly were willing and enthusiastic participants -- perfect attendance! Both plan to continue their efforts to be excellent fathers by being part of the new Father Love Dads' Discussion Group that begins next Thursday at PRC.